Memories, Medicine & Moods
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- 5/12/2022
Four decades of collaboration: My life with nurses
“Baby K is looking a little floppy.” I told them. An hour later when sepsis had been diagnosed, I received the accolades. “Good pick-up, Perle,” said the chief, approvingly. Nurse Deanna smiled. She’d given me this opportunity to shine and from that moment on the nurses in the NICU seemed to treat me differently. They knew I would listen. - 5/2/2022
Bill 96: If you don’t want to do something, one reason is as good as another
The image of two fluent Punjabi speakers being forced to communicate in French because of government fiat strikes me as completely absurd, cruel and ultimately dangerous. In many ways this follows a pattern of the Legault government’s strategy. - 4/6/2022
Calamity ware: What's in a plate?
“Could he be having a posterior MI?” I thought to myself. “But he just had an echo and a stress MIBI that was all normal, how could this be?” I persuaded myself that I was wrong. After all, he did have bad reflux and the occasional panic attack. I got up and got him some expired, four-year-old Maalox, and another PPI. “Do you feel better?” I asked him. - 2/25/2022
The Bubbie business
By the time my grandkids' parents came to pick them up, we were exhausted but happy and satisfied. “What good grandparents you are!” you might be thinking, but you see I have my own agenda. - 1/24/2022
War stories: O, do not wish one more!
The problem with working during COVID is these are not abstract ideas: bed closures, people missing vital surgeries and treatments, refugees pouring across the border, escaping exploitation and mistreatment. These are people with names, and faces, beating hearts, bellies that move under my examining hand, tears and frightened smiles. - 1/10/2022
Chocolate cake: a medical metaphor
If you think of medicine as a large iced chocolate layer cake, you can think of the icing as the signs and symptoms of illness and the names of all the diagnoses. The top layer of the cake is common disease. - 12/17/2021
House-call horrors: It's Christmas at the biker bar too
What was I, a nice Jewish girl and new mother, doing out on a cold Christmas night riding around in an overheated car doing home visits? Well, someone has to work Christmas and it may as well be me. - 12/13/2021
Communication skills: I know ‘em when I see ‘em
While there's no doubt some doctors have a natural talent for communication, these skills can be learned just like any other. - 11/29/2021
Conflicts of interest
Having entire families as your patients can come with its challenges, but sometimes things get sinister. - 10/25/2021
What I learned at my mother's knee before, during and after abortion reform
"There is no such thing as no abortion. There is only safe and unsafe abortion." - 9/29/2021
You used to buzz me on my pager
When I started in medicine, back before the Flood, there was the overhead paging system. Hospitals were cacophonous with the names of people being called overhead. - 9/16/2021
Learning to see: portraits and patients
I'm not one of those physicians who knew I was destined to be a doctor. Unlike many of my friends and classmates, there were no doctors in my family. In fact, most of the women in my family were visual artists.